Personality description of Marilyn Monroe on the basis of a picture

Personality description of Marilyn Monroe by Ingrid Holvoet.

On a picture I can sense the state of mind and the personality at the moment the picture was taken.
I was curious to know what would emerge from the picture and I was very surprised. Marilyn Monroe was not a nice person. She was suffering from a narcissistic personality disorder.

She wants to please, she wants to be loved, she wants to appeal, she wants to be flattered, she wants to be admired, she wants to get compliments.
 
Flirtatious behaviour with men, wants to appeal to men, wants to be attractive, wants to get attention from men and wants men run after her, has to be affirmed that she is beautiful. Wants to wind men around her little finger, she wants them to ever be there for her, and for them to crawl to her. And indeed, she gets what she wants, men are running after her, she can get a man to do what she wants. She manipulates men (e.g. through sex) and she can get men to do loads of things. A man is an object she uses in order to accomplish her objectives.
 
She would do anything to win a man over. She would do anything to hear a man say that she’s beautiful, and that he admires her, and that he can’t live without her, and that she means everything to him, and that he would collapse without her. She has a very high need for admiration. She constantly has to be affirmed she’s beautiful, she wants to hear that again and over and over again, she wants to hear how important she is for a man time and again and that he can’t do without her.
 
She has relationships with several men at the same time. That’s because she wants to be important to men, and she wants to twist men around her little finger in order to prove to herself she is still desirable, and she wants to hear she is beautiful and desirable over and over again. The more men tell her she is beautiful and desirable and the more men fancy her, the more she can be convinced she’s beautiful, the more she has evidence for herself she has power over men. Having power over men means they are at her beck and call, they do everything for her, they are always ready to help her, at her sign they drop everything they are engaged in and be there for her.
 
Fear of not being good enough. Fear of losing a man. Fear of not being admired. She has to be affirmed constantly that a man admires her.
Fear of being abandoned by a man. She has to hear him again and again (e.g. on the telephone), she imposes herself on a man, he has to be there for her all the time. He may not think of anything else besides her, he may not have anything else come first. His life has to revolve around her, she has to be the pivot of his life, around which everything revolves. He has to be there for her, he has to do everything for her. He has to proclaim his eternal love and faithfulness. He has to load her with presents and jewelry.

She financially exploits a man, she tries to financially have her cake and eat it. She may pout when she doesn’t like a present or something else, and then she gets the man to hastily apologize and offer her something else. And then she has a feeling of power over the man. Then she has won and she has proved to herself her huge power over a man and what she must exude, her significant value and how she can get a man to go down on his knees before her, how she can get a man doing things for her, how defenseless a man is in her hands. She wants to have a man in her power.
 
She wants to have money, she approaches rich men who can give her her heart’s desire. She knows she is beautiful and she can exploit a man.
She is merciless, egoistic, she abuses information she obtained and she blackmails. Her aim is power. She’s very self-centered, only thinks of her own benefit. She calculates, she weighs the pros and cons and then she throws herself on her prey (a man), and she will use him, wind him around her little finger, exploit him.
 
She wants to be seen with important men, she wants to show the public how important she is. Everything revolves around her, the whole world revolves around her. Is exclusively oriented towards herself, is unable to show interest in someone else. Huge lack of empathic ability, only wants things to be good for her all the time. Has to receive attention, has to be the centre of interest, has to be admired, draws the attention to her. Can’t bear the fact that somebody else receives some attention or comes to the forefront. When this happens, she’ll make sure she comes to the forefront.
 
Is very jealous of whomever receives attention or is admired. She will try to play a nasty trick to someone else getting attention and being admired.
She has to come first, always and everywhere. She has to be in the front and get all attention and admiration, and all the others have to be pushed to the background. She pushes other people out of the way, she has to make herself felt.
 
Is desperately looking for love, but can’t find love. Her relationships with men revolve around having power over a man, having power by means of sex, having to be admired and exploiting the man. If she has no longer wants a man, she throws him away. Moreover she’ll make sure, if she is given the chance, that he will be put in a bad light. She will send anonymous letters to the wife. She will blackmail. Somehow or other she will take revenge.

If she’s rejected by a man, she feels miserable, she feels small, she’s humiliated and broken. And then she recovers and goes in search of the next man.
 
The men get fed up with it, at first they are full of admiration and impressed by her sexual talents. They think they have found ms Right and they would be willing to give up everything for her, their wife, their marriage. But then they get to know her whims, her fastidiousness, her egocentric nature. They have to be at her every beck and call, and to load her with gifts. Soon they get the feeling of being trapped, of being smothered. They are caught like a prey in the claws of a predator. And then they want to get away. But Marilyn does not allow that, because she doesn’t want to be thrown away. She also has separation anxiety and she vehemently clings to every relationship. She is unable to be alone, she has to have a man. And then there are many quarrels and dreadful scenes with lots of reproaches and lots of tears. And then there is blackmail and even more abuse and exploitation of the man. Eventually the relationship stops with the man in a tricky position because of the threat of blackmail, and the man feeling having escaped from the claws of a predator. Marilyn is intent on revenge, she will try to hit the man in some or other way, try to destroy him.
 
She doesn’t enjoy sex, she puts up an act. Sex is a weapon to get control over a man.
In relationships with women she is hypocritical, she wants to get rid of other women, she doesn’t like women, she feels threatened by women, she feels inferior around women. She regards a woman as a competitor, she competes with women. She will always push other women to the background and push herself to the forefront.
 
Doesn’t feel love for people, is only concerned with herself and always and everywhere out after her own benefit. Utter lack of sympathetic and emphatic ability. The others have to get out of the way, she has to be in the front.
 
Vain, is only occupied with herself, haughty, looks down on others.
Lonely, feels alone.
Anxious.
Has nightmares, wakes up with a start at night.

Marilyn Monroe, second picture


Carefree.
Happy.
Feels safe at that moment, feels protected.
Can only think of herself and of the attention she wants to get.
Is continuously occupied with herself and with her own desires.
Can’t bear someone else receiving attention, when this happens she’ll give her all to bring the attention to herself.
She’s important, she’s the greatest, she has to make herself felt, the others are not important, they don’t count, she looks down upon them.
Has to be the centre, (compulsory), has to be the core of everything. She has to be the one everything always revolves around.
When something doesn’t please her she will sulk, be moody, make a fuss, pout until she gets her way.
Apart from her partner she cares about no one. Everything revolves around her and all others are of no importance.
 
Doesn’t feel like listening to other people, there are some people she’s about to meet and who always want to tell her things (among others an elderly, small, fragile woman), but she doesn’t want to hear that. They are going out for dinner later on, she and her partner and some other people (for one this woman). She plans to just look in front of her and to pretend not to hear them when this woman or someone else is speaking, as if she’s lost in thought. She’s going to ignore what these people are saying and pretend not to notice they are speaking. She wants to speak herself, she wants to talk about herself and get all attention and make other people feel she doesn’t consider them important. And she wants to make them feel she doesn’t want to hear what others are telling, that she couldn’t care less, that the conversation is about her and her plans and projects and only about that and about nothing else. She wants to be the centre of every activity, and she wants to shove the others aside.
 
After a dinner or some other activity where she has not been the centre of attention and others got attention before her, or tried to get a part of the attention, so that she didn’t receive 100% of the attention, she can be very ill-tempered and unmanageable towards her partner. Then she feels awful, really rotten about the fact that someone else also received some part of the attention, as if he or she was also important, and that as a result she was less important and was being relegated to the background. And then she’s afraid that some people present might have noticed this, might have seen that she wasn’t in the spotlight all the time and consequently might find her less important. People will think she is no longer important and she has to make up for that afterwards.  And then at a next on a next occasion she’ll make sure she’s clearly in the spotlight and that everyone will be able to see how important she is and that everything revolves around her and that everyone else shrinks into insignificance beside this gloriousl person that she is. She is obsessively occupied with the fact something has to be organized in which she’s given that opportunity, until she has got her way.
  
And only then she can find peace again. When such an occasion has occurred where she wasn’t the centre of interest, then she’s unmanageable and terribly moody. Then he has to do everything to make her happy again, and to make her feel better again. Then he has to pamper her, and to serve her, and to buy her things, but then she still feels awful. Only if she has been given an opportunity to shine in the spotlight while all others are sinking into nothingness beside to her, she’ll feel better again. And then she can again be sweet and charming to her partner.
 
Her partner has to be up and on the hop continuously to oblige her unremittingly. He has to lie at her feet. Then she’s nice and cooperative and she does everything he desires and she can pay attention to him. Then she can show interest in what he is telling and she is all ears when he tells about his projects and she admires him and she also makes him feel that way. Then she makes him feel he’s extraordinarily significant, that he’s a very great and important person, and that the world would almost perish if he weren’t there any longer. Then she admires him and puts him on a pedestal and he’s in centre stage and then she says she’s insignificant compared to such an important man, that  - however she’s in the limelight and is being admired -  next to him she’s small, and then they are happy together.
 



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